Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Why dont U TRUST me??? :(

Trust. An entire relationship contained in that one word. The only acquired instinct that we need to learn if we need to live. Trust surpasses all, contains all, and forgives all. We trust, and so we are. In testimonial of that potent feeling then, here's to some quotes and sayings on trust.
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You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough.


The inability to open up to hope is what blocks trust, and blocked trust is the reason for blighted dreams.


Few things help an individual more than to place responsibility upon him, and to let him know that you trust him.


To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved


The fundamental glue that holds any relationship together is trust. 

We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone-but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy.

The key is to get to know people and trust them to be who they are. Instead, we trust people to be who we want them to be-and when they're not, we cry.

Love is unconditional, relationships are not.Trust is like a vase...once it's broken, though you can fix it the vase will never be same again.

A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly who knows the best and worst of us and who loves us in spite of all our faults.

The best proof of love is trust.

Trust lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without trust.

A good marriage is at least 80 percent good luck in finding the right person at the right time. The rest is trust.

Trust enables you to put your deepest feelings and fears in the palm of your partner's hand, knowing they will be handled with care.

When you really trust someone, you have to be okay with not understanding some things.

A wedding anniversary is the celebration of love, trust, partnership, tolerance and tenacity. The order varies for any given year.

He who does not trust enough, will not be trusted.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Why fighting - bf vs gf ??


Fighting with your bf/gf? Step out of the room & wait till u r ready to talk.



Disagreements happen in normal relationships. What is important is HOW you and your partner talk with each other during these times. Everyone needs to learn how to deal with disagreement in a healthy way.

Use the tips the next time you have a disagreement 

One problem at a time: Try to talk about one disagreement or problem at a time. This will help you and your partner put your attention on one issue only and come up with a way to handle it that will work for both of you. Couples who try to talk about a lot of problems at one time usually get too angry and often feel hurt.

Talk as soon as you can: When you are feeling badly about something, let your partner know how you are feeling. This will prevent you from keeping your feelings inside for a while. When this happens, it is easy to get more and more hurt, angry or upset.

Use “I” statements: Instead of saying, “You make me feel…” or “you did...” or “you never…,” say “I feel hurt when…” Also, in addition to telling your partner how you feel, give your partner as much information as you can so that he or she will understand why you feel that way. Doing this will help you and your partner decide on what can be done so that the problem won’t happen again.

NO insults or name-calling! If you or your partner starts name-calling, it’s time to walk-away and cool-off. You are no longer communicating.
Apologizing and compromising: Relationships involve having to do both of these things, even the best of relationships. We can’t have everything our way all the time, and we all make mistakes. If you were wrong, admit it. Even if you didn’t mean to hurt the other person, you should still say you’re sorry. And compromising does not mean you give in to the other person; it means you find a solution that works for both of you.
Remember, verbal or physical abuse is NOT okay!