Why dont U TRUST me??? :(

Trust. An entire relationship contained in that one word. The only acquired instinct that we need to learn if we need to live. Trust surpasses all, contains all, and forgives all. We trust, and so we are. In testimonial of that potent feeling then, here's to some quotes and sayings on trust.
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You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough.


The inability to open up to hope is what blocks trust, and blocked trust is the reason for blighted dreams.


Few things help an individual more than to place responsibility upon him, and to let him know that you trust him.


To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved

The fundamental glue that holds any relationship together is trust. 

We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone-but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy.

The key is to get to know people and trust them to be who they are. Instead, we trust people to be who we want them to be-and when they're not, we cry.

Love is unconditional, relationships are not.Trust is like a vase...once it's broken, though you can fix it the vase will never be same again.

A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly who knows the best and worst of us and who loves us in spite of all our faults.

The best proof of love is trust.

Trust lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without trust.

A good marriage is at least 80 percent good luck in finding the right person at the right time. The rest is trust.

Trust enables you to put your deepest feelings and fears in the palm of your partner's hand, knowing they will be handled with care.

When you really trust someone, you have to be okay with not understanding some things.

A wedding anniversary is the celebration of love, trust, partnership, tolerance and tenacity. The order varies for any given year.

He who does not trust enough, will not be trusted.

Why fighting - bf vs gf ??

Fighting with your bf/gf? Step out of the room & wait till u r ready to talk.

Disagreements happen in normal relationships. What is important is HOW you and your partner talk with each other during these times. Everyone needs to learn how to deal with disagreement in a healthy way.

Use the tips the next time you have a disagreement 

One problem at a time: Try to talk about one disagreement or problem at a time. This will help you and your partner put your attention on one issue only and come up with a way to handle it that will work for both of you. Couples who try to talk about a lot of problems at one time usually get too angry and often feel hurt.

Talk as soon as you can: When you are feeling badly about something, let your partner know how you are feeling. This will prevent you from keeping your feelings inside for a while. When this happens, it is easy to get more and more hurt, angry or upset.

Use “I” statements: Instead of saying, “You make me feel…” or “you did...” or “you never…,” say “I feel hurt when…” Also, in addition to telling your partner how you feel, give your partner as much information as you can so that he or she will understand why you feel that way. Doing this will help you and your partner decide on what can be done so that the problem won’t happen again.

NO insults or name-calling! If you or your partner starts name-calling, it’s time to walk-away and cool-off. You are no longer communicating.

Apologizing and compromising: Relationships involve having to do both of these things, even the best of relationships. We can’t have everything our way all the time, and we all make mistakes. If you were wrong, admit it. Even if you didn’t mean to hurt the other person, you should still say you’re sorry. And compromising does not mean you give in to the other person; it means you find a solution that works for both of you.

Remember, verbal or physical abuse is NOT okay!

Why so ill?? :( try homemade remedies to fight from cough and cold :)

• Add honey and a pinch of salt to orange juice and drink it to get relief from cold, cough and throat pain.
• Include cabbage regularly in food to control cold and cough.
• Add pepper to guava to get relief from phlegm.
• Having cow’s milk with honey cures cold.
• Fresh cow’s milk with turmeric powder, drink early morning to get relief from dry cough.
• For children add tulsi leaves juice to mother’s milk for cold.
• Burn onion directly in the flame and eat to remove cough and chest congestion.
• Betel leaves juice with honey helps in getting relief from cough.
• Having a glass of milk with turmeric in the night gives relief from cold and cough.
• Karpuravalli leaf is excellent in cures for coughs and cold. Boil 3-4 leaves in water and drink the water. Repeat this for 2 – 3 days to get a good relief from cold. You can also add these leaves to rasam and eat the leaves along with the rasam.
• Thoodhuvalai Keerai - very good to remove cough and cold, especially ‘nenju sali’.
• A very good kashayam which you can make at home for cough & cold. Take equal amounts of pepper, jeera, dhaniya, omum (ajwain), kandathippili, sathakuppai, dry neem flowers, dry ginger.Fry each till golden & crush everything together.To 2 tsp powder add 2 cups of water & boil. Reduce to 1 cup, strain, add honey & drink. Drink twice a day to get good relief from cold and cough.
• In bulk the following powder can be made and stored in fridge. Chitharathai – ¼ kg, Adhi madhuram – ¼ kg, turmeric – 50 gms, omam – 25 gms. Crush it and keep it in hot sun for 2 hours. Grind it in mixie, sieve it and take out the powder. This powder can be added to hot water or to hot milk before going to bed.

Throat hoarseness

• Soak 8 to 10 almonds overnight in 1 cup water. After discarding the outer skin, grind the kernels with 8 to 10 black pepper (saboot kali mirch) in 1 cup water. Sift it and drink once a day, after adding sugar candy (mishri) to taste.
  

Throat Pain :

• Crush a few neem leaves with water. Remove pulp. Warm it up. Add a little honey and gargle.
• Mix 1 teaspoon lime juice and 1 tablespoon honey. Swallow tiny amounts slowly 2-3 times a day.
• 10 dried grapes, 5 valmilagu, 2 cardomom, boil in water and drink to get relief from throat pain.
• For throat irritation chew tulsi leaves.
• Chew mint leaves with ginger and drink hotwater to get relief from throat pain and irritation.

Throat Soreness :

• Apply liquorice (mulathi) paste like a paint around the throat for relief.
• Eat a plain betel with liquorice (mulathi) 2-3 times a day.
• Drink tea boiled with ginger (adrak) and a few tulsi leaves 2-3 times a day.
• Gargle with warm salt water at least twice a day. However do not make gargling sounds as this may aggravate the soreness.
• Pound 2-3 cloves (laung), garlic (lasan) and add to a cupful of honey. Keep for 1-2 days. Have one teaspoon thrice a day.
• Drink lots of water (10-12 glasses) a day since most throat problems are intensified by dehydration.
• Have the mixture of ½ teaspoon honey and ½ teaspoon lemon juice every 1-2 hours.
• Add two tablespoon of fenugreek (methi) seeds to 6 cups of water. Heat on low flame/simmer for 15-20 minutes. Cool to bearable temperature. Strain and gargle 2-3 times a day with this.
• Heat a cup of milk (warm). Add 1-2 pinch of turmeric powder (haldi) mix well and drink at might.
  

Mucus in cough

• Pour 1 cup boiling water over ½ teaspoon each of ginger (adrak) powder, clove (laung) powder and cinnamon (dalchini) powder. Filter. Sweeten with 1 teaspoon honey and drink.

Nasal congestion

• Crush a fistful of carom seeds (ajwain) and tie up in a cotton napkin and place it near the pillow.
• Put 1 teaspoon cardamom (chhoti illaichi) seeds on burning coal and inhale the smoke.

Nose blockage due to cold and phlegm

• Make into a very fine powder equal quantities of the following: cardamom (chhoti illaichi) seeds, cinnamon (dalchini), black pepper (kali mirch) and cumin (jeera). Sniff this powder frequently to induce sneezing.
• To get relief from nose block due to cold, take omam in a small piece of cloth and breath it.
  Putting 2 drops of coconut oil in the nose also gives relief from nose block due to cold.

FACTS ABOUT BOYS..............a gal should know all of them to suceed in a relation :)

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate other flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalize
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite – Whatever.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. So true.
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..sumtimes depends wen they want sumat.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”……sumtimes.
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready 2be settled down.
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed by you or he’s criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact. ……sumtimes.
99. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.

To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved

I've learned that it takes years 
to build up trust, and it only takes 
suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter: 
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said:
"No, Dad. You hold my hand." 
"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father. 

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl. 
"If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go." 

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...